
Reiley came home from first grade yesterday quite exhausted and I will spare you the details of the tantrum that ensued. But, in the aftermath when we were talking about her day, she told me that a boy named "Bob", who sits next to her, is "emptying her passion bucket."
EXCUSE ME???? YOUR WHAT???? I think I just died! I fell on the floor and actually died... I was quickly informed that your "passion bucket" is actually your heart and things like hugs and kind words fill your bucket and mean words and actions empty your bucket. OKAY, can you hear me exhale? PHEW. And also - AWWWE that is so sweet.
So, how is Bob emptying your bucket? Well, apparently Bob hates school, is not happy with his mom and doesn't like the teacher. And, I am just guessing here, but probably the glue doesn't taste just right either. In fact, according to Bob, school SUCKS. That's right, SUCKS, this is a first grader with a ton of grievances and a creative vocabulary. And, to my school loving, mom loving, teacher loving, non-swearing first grader, Bob is a real downer... a bucket emptier. Reiley has had it with Bob. How can Bob not love school and his mom and the teacher? And to directly quote her, "what is wrong with Bob?" So, we talked about how to not let Bob, or anyone else for that matter, empty your bucket. Maybe Bob was just having a bad day... Be kind to Bob fill up his bucket, but let's not play with Bob at recess.
So, I gave her some love and a big hug and filled up her bucket! I am incredibly impressed at the creativity of her teacher in teaching lessons of kindness and helping these 6 year olds learn how to build up other people. And, as for Bob, let's hope that he has a better day today or that they change the seating arrangement soon. Watch out Bob, Reiley, who is incredibly positive and generally a 'miss merry sunshine' has it in for you.... you will LOVE everyone and everything by the time she is done with you.
And a lesson for this mommy - make sure those little buckets are full to overflowing every day.